Wednesday, December 12, 2012

你对“暴力”有何看法呢?

“暴力!” = Violence
其实我很想问“暴力”到底是从哪里开始发起的?是在公元前吗?还是从人类一开始就有了?
它是一种遗传式的调教方式吗?是宗教、文化、还是国家或种族的风俗习惯呢?

为什么以前的人常常都会利用“暴力”来调教孩子呢?
在家里时,小孩有不听话、做错事情、顽皮、不尊重、吵扰。。。就会被父母亲
鞭打,掴打,牢住在房里,没有饭吃,站在屋外不能进屋,痛骂,粗骂。。。。。
在学校也是如此,学生会被老师叫去罚站,鞭打,罚跑草场,罚站桌子椅子,留堂,掴打,痛骂。。。。。

我想你可能也有过类似的情形吧!或者你的朋友有过这样的经历。你愿意分享你的故事吗?
那些小孩当时的心情又是如何的呢?他们的想法又会怎样呢?
难道利用暴力就能有效的调教孩子了吗?还是会反效果呢?
其实“暴力”是从何时开始的呢?为什么人类又会想到利用暴力是好的调教方法之一呢?

现在的摩登时代已经不同了。“暴力”对孩子来说是一个不合法的。这也是不鼓励的。为什么呢?
这不是从很早以前就一直传留下来的调教好方法之一吗?
那没有了“暴力”,是否还能够有效的调教孩子呢?他们又是用什么新的方法呢?

如果换着是你的话,你是一个小孩,你会怎么看待父母亲对你所施的暴力呢?你的感受又如何呢?
如果换着是你的话,你是父母亲,你会利用暴力对待你的孩子吗?
如果你是一个旁观者的话,你看到父母亲利用暴力对待他们的孩子,你又有怎么的看法呢?

Monday, August 3, 2009

Falls Creek ~ Drower's Dream




Love this line....this is much bigger than Wombat and To Village line.
nice nice ^^
Although Im just a beginner but I really do enjoy skiing here and the view from here to the lake was amazed.... (^_^)"

ps: not sure whether the video clip could view probably or not. Wish it could.
^^

Beginnner Skiing at Fallscreek II ~ To Village




share this video from my housemate. First time ever record in the video while skiing....of coz it won't be me....haha.....if i am the one who carrying the camera, i will end up be the first one reach the down hill in a minute from the top.....do you know what i mean? lolx....
I have ski far away from them....then just waiting them coming down while the camera was on me >_<" i should keep on skiing so that i am not just stood there, rite? haiz

Thursday, July 30, 2009

Eyes ~




I love my eyes.
Eyes could tell something without a word.
Eyes could show your strenuous;Eyes also could show your weakness.
Eyes could see the colourful world clearly;Eyes also could see the world greyly.
Eyes represent part of your beauty.
Eyes are the special gift from GOD.
我爱我这双眼睛
不用口,它也可以对你说话
它可以显出你的热情;它也可以显出你的软弱
它可以看清这七彩缤纷的世界;它也可以看这世界为灰暗
眼睛是你的优美之一
它是上帝赐给你的一份特别礼物

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Ai Xiao De Yan Jing - Vivian

Sunday, July 12, 2009

Nike booties




wah....sosososososososo~~~~~~~ cute >_<"
baby booties really cute. Once i saw them, i really have the excitement want to bring them home....
but...but.... they were too expensive =_="
thirty dollars and above....(@_@)" much more expensive than my shoes =(
gosh....
i promise, i will buy for my children next time.... love them supreme much =P
but dunno when i get marry, these booties still available or not (+_+")

Friday, July 10, 2009

来杯热的~




天气冷的时候,你会要什么?
我会弄杯热腾腾的milo来喝。。。。如果有choc powder加入,那就更加的棒!^^
喝杯热得也要拍?没办法。。。。太无聊了。。。。没事干,找事做。。。。 =P

Skiing ~~~~~~~~

Start:     Jul 31, '09
End:     Aug 2, '09
Location:     Falls Creek
wooohooo.....ski ski.... snow snow..... cold cold... .yeah.....~~~~~
hahaha.... will going to have my second time trip to Falls Creek oh...
ski ski..... dangerous but interesting sport.....
Love the snowy ~~~ GOOD ** hehehe
Placement ??!! Working??!! Take off day.... dun care lor.... hahaha....