Someone has said," Forgiveness is not a case of " holy amnesia " that wipes out the past. Instead, it is the experience of healing that drains the poison from the wound."
Last year, I've make a new friend. He was kind & friendly. We always chat in phone & sms almost everyday. But, one day he told me to stop sms him & lesser chatting in phone. I was curious, what've happened to him. I tried to find out the answer from him but always failed. For example:10 sms sent, no 1 reply; every calls failed to answer. I was very worry what has happened to him. Did I done anything wrong? What happened? Can someone told me?
One day, he answered my call & told me that his girl friend will be angry with him if he continue to be friend with me. He suggest to end-up this friendship. I was shock! What theory it is? Is there a limitation to have a friend or to make friend with? Is there a law that boy & girl, who are in relationship & anyone in married cannot make friends with others? I was very angry with him & hung up the phone. I've cried for a few days because of this. I've asked myself several times, what's a friend for? Why we should true & sincere in friendship, but in result we being threatened badly? Why...Why...Why...?????
One night, I've read the words of Jesus in the bible:
"If you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."
(Matthew 6 : 15)
God asks us to do for others what He has done for us through Jesus Christ. He'll give us strength to forgive.
Since we all need forgiveness, we should always be forgiving. I was struggled with my feelings but when I recalled the words of Jesus in Matthew 6:15, I knew I had to forgive.
I am very sorry & I know I'm wrong. I should not thinking childish & asking lot of silly questions.
I really hope he will forgive me too. The anger & the reaction that I've done to him may make him feel disappointed & angry too. I wish this friendship will be joint again.
hi... i can ans. ur forgiveness Q's hehe.. i also hav a boy as a best friend we chat on the internet but some tymes sms he is "goo hon" n says his fone bill is xpensive hahaha.. so more often chat in msn...
ReplyDeletehahah....dun worriz u can make more BOY friends anytime lol
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eh?? you never told me about that leh!!! hemm....Monday will ask you about that oh.....haha....
ReplyDeleteNO...its alrite now,even now we less msg to one another, but we still keep in touch to each other.....
hehe....of coz we can make more boy or girl friends everywhere....see like you and me....this a good example oh..... =P